The Meat and Potatoes of Life: Battery by blender’s a social services cautionary tale

| May 17, 2013 | 0 Comments


Susan Molinari Contributing Writer

Susan Molinari
Contributing Writer

“MOLINARI!” the ER nurse bellowed, jolting my Navy husband and I out of our waiting room stupor.

Tearing our eyes from hypnotic crime show reruns playing on the wall-mounted television, we scrambled to move our 12-year-old daughter, who’d been placed in a wheelchair to elevate her lacerated foot.

“So, what happened?” the nurse asked.

“It was the blender,” I blurted, nervously.

“The blender?” the nurse looked in horror at our daughter’s foot, wrapped in a dishtowel.

“Well, no, her foot wasn’t actually in the blender. … It was on the floor … and the blender was in the freezer.”

“In the freezer?” the nurse asked, confused.

“I … it was me, ” I mumbled culpably. “I put the glass pitcher in the freezer. When my daughter opened the door, it fell out and cut her foot.”

“Ah,” said the nurse, relieved to not be dealing with a frappèd foot. “Let’s take a quick look.”

As our daughter winced and whined, we carefully unraveled the dishtowel.

“Hmmm. Looks like you’re gonna need a few stitches young lady,” said the nurse.

The nurse fired questions at us: “full name, date of birth, address, phone number, Tricare prime or standard, sponsor’s social,” while tapping away at her computer.

Then, after a pregnant pause, she looked intently at us and carefully enunciated, “Has your daughter ever had stitches before?”

“No,” I answered, immediately.

My mind waffled and my eyes darted as I thought, “Should I tell her about that face plant she did into the side of the backyard play set? She didn’t need stitches, but if I don’t mention that, will she think I’ve got something to hide?

“Sit tight in the waiting room. When the doctor is ready for you, we’ll get you all fixed up,” the nurse said, with a smile.

We settled back into the waiting room, just in time to see Matlock render a withering cross-examination.

Stagnating under the unforgiving fluorescent lights for another hour, we reassured our daughter, analyzed the people around us, leafed through dog-eared magazines and watched an episode of “Hill Street Blues.”

Just as I thought cobwebs were forming, our name was called.

The X-ray technician, the billing rep, the nurse, the doctor — they all asked the same questions. First, a battery of rapid-fire queries regarding tedious details were launched in robotic succession, followed by one carefully worded question delivered police-interrogation style.

I can’t recall if the final question was “Has your daughter had stitches before?” or “Are you the abusive parent who negligently put the blender in the freezer sideways?” but I am certain that they had it out for me.

I prayed they wouldn’t find out about our two older kids, who have had their share of ER visits in past tours. Three broken bones, two pulled elbows and at least a dozen stitches, with such typical excuses: fell off the couch, fell off the play set, fell into the play set, fell down the stairs. It all sounded so textbook; I was sure the police were on their way to haul me off to jail.

But finally, after 30 minutes of treatment and three hours of waiting, we were released. Feeling like some kind of middle-aged jailbird, I sheepishly wheeled my daughter back to the ER entrance.

On our way back to base, while my daughter sipped a conciliatory chocolate shake, I turned to her in an effort to relieve the still-fresh pang of guilt.

“Lollipop, if I hadn’t put that blender in the freezer sideways, none of this would’ve happened. I’m so sorry,” I said.

“It’s OK, Mom,” she said between sips. “It’s not you’re fault. It was just an accident.”

blender_wAlong with my heart and that chocolate shake, my mother’s guilt melted away.

(A 20-year Navy spouse and mother of three, Lisa has plenty of humor to share in her column, “The Meat and Potatoes of Life,” which appears in military and civilian newspapers and on “Stripes Military Moms” website, at www.themeatandpotatoesoflife.

com and follow @MolinariWrites.)


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